+ How partners can develop winning habits in relationship
This is really a turbulent time in world economy: prices of goods and services are fluctuating, salaries are not increased but the needs of man are (always) insatiable.
Who are those that will survive this season of economy downturn? Those that will come out stronger, richer and better? Who are those that will lead the best kind of live after this economy hardship is gone?
Some people will be suggesting different things by now. Like saying: the rich, wealthy, politicians, those in highest paying jobs, the educated, business owners and the likes. In fact, some will say children of God, people that have bought shares or those that had invested into profits yielding businesses.
While the categories of people (above) make enough sense. We want to tell you that the category of people that will come back – standing firm on their feet, are families in which there is synergy: no matter the level of income.
‘United we stand’ – always win
Consider a family of the rich, where the father, the mother and the children do (only) what pleases each other – without consideration for one another.
Do you think there can be complete peace in there? They may have all things going well for them, but they are (all) hurting in parts – that when this economic recession is over (they come out fine) but they will still continue to live in bitterness against one another, sadness of heart, rejection, etc.
However, when the reverse is the case (no matter the status of the family), by the time they come out of the economic recession – it will be with fulfillment, happiness that connotes ‘yes, we did it together’: this is the type of synergy that causes achievements to have meaning.
Morris Cerullo, in GOD’S ENDTIME PROTECTION – FAMILY POWER PACT, said that you must learn the enemies strategy to protect your family.
“In this endtime… Satan is attacking families with every evil strategy possible. To prophetically protect your family you must first recognize his evil strategies, and then know how to seize victory over his attacks in every area of your life”.
How do you, then, fight for your family if there is no synergy in there? Even, the Bible suggests it is good for two people to dwell together, but it must be in agreement.
“Can two walk together, except they be agreed?” Amos 3:3, KJV.
“Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!” Psalm 133:1, KJV.
“… but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up”. Ecclesiastes 4:10.
Synergy for relationship success defined
Synergy simply refers to ‘combined action’. In this view, synergy can either be positive or negative.
When two or more people agree to defraud another person – that is negative synergy, but when people agree to do good to others, transact businesses with credibility, and/or be involved in social reformation – then, there will be a positive synergy.
For a successful relationship, therefore, partners must develop synergy in the following areas to enjoy their union to the core. Please, bear in mind that ‘relationship’ as used in this articles refers to either ‘marriage’, ‘dating’ or ‘courting’.
These include, but not limited to:
- Prayer: together, for each other.
- Open mindedness with each other.
- Positive representations of each other.
- Financial agreement: including planning and executions.
- Unconditional love for each other.
- Self sacrifices.
- Putting the other before oneself.
- Consistent communications. It helps to quickly resolve disagreement.
- Pleasing each other – in godly means.
We guarantee success, happiness and faithfulness in (any) union that tries these things.
We wish all relationships (on good course) and marriages – success.
 Morris, Cerullo, God’s Endtime Protection – Family Power Pact, Pg3.